I paste my post here as i simply have this to say;
this is the subject i feel keeps raising its ugly head, repeatedly with paul and his patients. i do not see paul as caring or enforcing or maybe even believing in the necessity for strong boundries. he has paid some scant lip service to the concept but lately is absolutely opaque and diffuse. Paul needs a refresher course in boundries. gina is the recipient of gold stars this last Fri..i was so impressed by her..not a criticism here and thank god the question was finally asked "why did you pick me paul?"
DUH
Frankly i am disappointed in pauls realization that he is in love with laura and takes no pause with this. delusion, exhaustion, not thinking clearly...at least he had some kind of healing radar to go seek out Gina..on that i hang my hat