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Well, well, well, somehow, someway, I have suddenly become the model plural wife! ROFLMAO. I'm half joking but there have been some interesting developments.

*The only one who has lost her mind and had any hissy fits has been S..natch! hey as long as it wasn't me, I'm glad. What was nice is she wrote loooong notes to the rest of us adults and gave them to us today. OK YES, I peeked. I didn't read all of them in entirety but she thanked me for coming into their lives, even said I bring a "balance." w/e that means. She told T she was right about me! YAY! and apologized, I think to R for being tough on all of us. I THINK, I really didn't want to read his so I just glanced at it since it was on his desk, not hiding. The point is, I have no idea what I've done to deserve her sudden adoration but so be it. :)

* I have survived not one but 2 tornado watches now in Texas..ah texas in the Springtime..lol a horrific hail storm tonight that ruined the vegetable garden..ugh, R is sad about that.

* My room is almost completely unpacked!

* I had been feeling sort of off to the side watching a melodrama that I was a part of but not really. I no longer feel that way. R and I are starting to recapture some of what was special about us. And I heard some affirmation from none other than S's daughter who said that I'm a match for R's wits and a solace to him. *shrugs

Anyhow, my friends, all in all this IS going quite well. I miss my kids though and I'm hoping that my youngest's girl hurries with this new baby so I can have a good reason to fly back east for a couple of weeks. I really wish R was going with me though....
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I'm glad everything is starting well, and I have every expectation that it will end well, but I've got to warn you about a feeling I get in my spirit -- I'm not sure if this is general advice or specific advice.

Long version (Circuitrous route) -- they say that labor is the greatest pain you ever feel, but the quickest forgotten. I tend to believe that a woman having a new sister-wife in the family is a lot like having a new sibling. There is not just one adjustment period & boom, it's over & settled -- there are probly several adjustment periods in most polygynous households.

Back to that labor thing -- yes, it's easy to get over the labor pains when you have a brand new beautiful baby or a brand new beautiful sister-wife -- but some new mommies get "post-partum depression", beware of that, OK?